Women who are really secure are confident, not arrogant. Men can smell the difference and a confident woman is flat out sexy.
What makes a woman confident is when she has the ability to live a centered life. She believes in herself and her dreams. She goes out and does something great and she absolutely, unequivocally does not hang on a man’s attention or opinion.
Sometimes confidence is tested when you meet a man who appears to draw you in. There’s a tendency to lean in too much because he seems so intriguing.
And this is where NOT being nice aka a doormat come into play. Men are flattered by nice women but they hardly find anything fascinating about them.
If you want to know, I am not advocating being a demanding wrench – act like this and men will do everything to get away from you.
Nice equals boring
Mischievous equals electrifying
Become a playful woman who just might burn an impression of yourself on a man’s mind. When you are being mischievous, you need to play it up, change it up, return back to base and leave em’ thinking.
Men love this. A woman who can round up a good does of mischief builds a man’s attraction for her. As with anything, steady it with balance.
Keep it moving, don’t overdo it, and use a little ebb and flow to gently rock a man into overdrive. Love it!
If you’ve ever experience how a man can be enticed by mischief, drawn in it’s magnetism, and almost fall at your feet, then you’ll know the sweet power of mischief.
You’ll leave him wanting!